How to Give Your Woman an Orgasm during Intercourse

If your woman isn't as eager for sex as you'd like her to be (or not interested at all), it's probably because she isn't getting much enjoyment from it. It's human nature to want more of what we like and less of what we don't. If your partner isn't sick, injured, or cheating on you, the reason she doesn't want to have sex more often is because she doesn't enjoy it. Period.

Surveys reveal that only about 30 percent of women have orgasms with intercourse. Female sexual pleasure mostly associates with her clitoris and G spot. Women often don't have orgasm with intercourse because some sex positions don't provide enough stimulation of these pleasure spots. Here are some positions and techniques that do provide the stimulation your woman needs to have an orgasm with intercourse.

Positions and techniques for clitoral stimulation

Woman on top

The woman on top position is definitely the choice of women because she gets direct stimulation of the clitoris. Some women don’t like to be “on top” because they feel the man gets to be too lazy and only has to lie back and watch the show. You can remedy this by sitting up against pillows so that it’s far easier to kiss, and she can feel more engaged with you. The woman needs to set the pace with this position since she’s the one with the greatest possible range of motion. If she needs greater clitoral stimulation than this position normally gives her, she can lean forward and do more of a grinding motion than thrusting so that her clitoris rubs against your public bone. You can add even greater stimulation by caressing the sensitive undersides of her buttocks, or stroking her back door (make sure she’s well-lubricated), or even inserting a finger into her anus.

Doggy Style Sex Position

Sexual intercourse from behind gives a man access to almost every sensitive part of a woman’s body, allowing you to easily control her level of pleasure. Usually, a woman spreads her legs during doggy style sex to allow you access in between, making it easy to reach her clitoris while thrusting. She can arch her back or lower herself toward the bed to change the sensations. Either one of you can control the motion. You can thrust, she can rock back onto you, or both. Slow it down if you’re approaching orgasm and she needs more clitoral stimulation. If you time it right, you may well be able to reach your orgasms simultaneously.

Missionary (man-on-top) Sex Position

The missionary position is still a favorite for many couples because it’s one of the most intimate, but it doesn't allow for a lot of clitoral stimulation. The CAT, or coital alignment technique, is a way to make sure you’re lined up to give her clitoris the stimulation it needs to bring her to climax. To get into position, you slide forward from your normal resting place so that her clitoris is receiving stimulation from the base of your penis. She can then wrap her legs around yours, trying to extend the stretch of her legs so that her ankles are about at the height of your calves. With this position she can then begin to thrust her own pelvis, repeatedly making contact between her clitoris and the base of your penis.

When performing CAT, the main thing to keep in mind is maintaining contact with the clitoris. The overall movement is much less a thrusting than a synchronized rocking back and forth with the focus on the clitoris and the base of the penis. Here’s the most important part: as she pushes up on the top of your shaft, you resist with less force than she pushes. Now, on the way back down, as you push down against her clitoris, she resists with less force than you push. The result is a series of “small collisions,” rather than the standard friction of thrusting though “collisions” is an exaggeration.

Positions and techniques for G-spot stimulation

Woman-on-top and doggy style also work great for G-spot stimulation. If she leans forward when she's on top, it will cause your penis to touch her G-spot. Doggy style can be an effective position for G-spot stimulation in women because when thrusting from behind your penis should naturally rub against her G-spot. You need to massage her G-spot before penetration, though, to "wake it up." The penis, since it puts less direct pressure on the G-spot, can be even more pleasurable than fingers, but it often takes a lot of thrusting to stimulate the G-spot as much as only a few minutes of manual massage can do.

The secret for men to add that extra "oomph" for G-spot stimulation during intercourse is practicing your PC muscle exercises. When a man squeezes his PC muscle, women usually feel extra pressure on the top part of their vaginal walls, stimulating their G-spots. Every once in a while, stop the active thrusting and just tap your penis upwards using your PC muscles. You'll be amazed at the results.

Positions and techniques for clitoral and G-spot stimulation

Combine techniques from both of the above. Stimulating both the clitoris and G-spot may lead to a powerful blended orgasm for her, resulting from contractions in both areas at once.

Are these the only positions and techniques that will give woman an orgasm with intercourse? Absolutely not! Don’t be afraid to experiment, especially with a long-term partner. Women love sex just as much as you do. If you can make a woman feel great and give her an orgasm from time to time (or often), she will be more receptive to your sexual advances. That will lead to something both you and she want: more sex.

Making a woman orgasm is almost every man’s dream. Unfortunately, not every man knows what buttons to touch to give her the ultimate orgasm. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

Try the 77 Sex Position to Hit Your Woman’s G-Spot

The G-spot is a dime-sized erogenous zone located just underneath the front vaginal wall. It's made from ultra sensitive erectile-like tissue that, when touched, swells to the size of a quarter and brings on feelings of sexual bliss, similar to the way the clitoris responds to contact. Stimulating the G-spot can greatly boost orgasm, creating a more intense climax, and in some cases, ejaculation.

You're undoubtedly familiar with the 69 position for mutual oral sex, but you may not have heard of the 77 position for stimulating the G-spot. The name "77" refers to the way you and your partner's bodies look when they meld together in this side entry position. It's similar to spooning but with a twist. The unique angling practically guides the penis to her G-spot.

The woman should lie on her side with her man behind her so that they both are facing the same direction. She then wraps her legs around his top leg and pulls him close, pushing her butt toward him as he enters her. Once he's inside, she should straighten her legs in tandem with his so that they're tightly sandwiched together, toes pointed. They should stay connected as they simultaneously bend at their waists, while extending their legs at a 45-degree angle away from their bodies. Folding over and assuming the 77 position in this maneuver changes the angle of penetration, creating a direct penile pathway to the front vaginal wall where her G-spot is located.

Some women need a little build up to a G-spot orgasm, so if it feels a little too intense at first, back off on the pressure or change the angle of penetration until you’re ready for more direct pressure. The clitoris and the G-spot are connected, so stimulating the clitoris while really pushing against the G-spot can be the key to taking things to the next level. Don’t be afraid to direct your partner to thrust harder (which doesn’t always mean faster!), touch your clitoris, or do whatever you need to maximize your pleasure.

G-spot orgasms are the most intense orgasms I've ever experienced. They create a powerful, flushing feeling that spreads outward, resonating not only in my genitals but throughout my entire body. The intensity of G-spot orgasms may be directly related to pelvic floor muscle tone, which is another incentive for doing regular PC muscle exercises.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

Try the Pelvic Slide Position for Maximum Clitoral Stimulation

Many women have a difficult time reaching orgasm during intercourse (if they are able to orgasm at all) because they don’t get sufficient clitoral stimulation. One thing that has helped a lot of women learn to be orgasmic during intercourse is experimenting with sex positions. Many women agree there’s no better sexual position for reaching climax than woman-on-top. The Pelvic Slide is a variation of the woman-on-top position that adds a sexual movement technique that facilitates clitoral orgasm.

To assume the Pelvic Slide position, have your man lie on his back and straddle him with your knees on either side of his hips. Then, with one hand on the bed or his chest for support, hold the base of his penis with your other hand and slowly lower yourself onto him. Next, lie down on top of him and straighten your legs so that they are between his. Once in position, slide your body up and down on him, NOT in and out. His penis should remain completely inside you all the way to the base, right at the pubic bone as you move. This movement technique stimulates the clitoris with the friction and pressure from the upper pubic region, the area right above the pubic bone. Positioning your legs inside your man's in the Pelvic Slide also increases the tightness of the vagina around the penis.

The Pelvic Slide is the woman-on-top version of the Friction Zone Technique. The clitoral stimulation in both positions helps women to reach orgasm during vaginal intercourse. An advantage of the Pelvic Slide is that having the woman lying on top of her man is a very comfortable position for both partners, and it can feel very loving and emotionally intimate. In a report asking women why they enjoyed sex, the most common answer was emotional intimacy. The Pelvic Slide provides women the best of both worlds during intercourse: emotional intimacy and a satisfying orgasm.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

The 3 Best Positions for Shower Sex

Having sex in strange places is a turn-on for many. If you're looking for an interesting and somewhat unusual place to have sex, try playing around in the shower. You're already naked and slippery wet. Plus, when you're done, you can wash off. It's a perfect sexual scenario.

If you're going to have sex in the shower, you need to ensure that you do it safely. Don't try sexual acrobatics or make quick movements that might cause you to slip or fall, especially if you have glass shower doors.

Positions where one partner is standing are best for shower sex. Any position that requires one or both of you to be kneeling is going to be hard on the knees. With that in mind, here are the three best positions for shower sex.

1) Standing Doggy. She bends all the way over, keeping knees slightly bent and arms positioned against tub ledge, while he enters from behind, holding her hips.

2) The Leg Lift. Standing, she leans her back against the wall while he holds her knee up in the crook of his elbow.

3) The Wraparound. He lifts her up, and she wraps her legs around his waist. He then places her back against the wall and penetrates her, maneuvering her body by placing his hands on her buttocks. This is an excellent grinding position.

Having sex in the shower not only gives you a chance to try new things, but it also allows you to have the quiet time to do it without interruption. Shower sex can be an interesting addition to your sexual repertoire.

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The 3 Best Positions for Vaginal Fisting

Vaginal fisting is the process of putting all the fingers of your hand into a woman’s vagina, and then, when these are inside her, forming a fist. Positioning is important in fisting since you're attempting to expand the woman's vagina beyond its typical daily range, and the positioning of her pelvis and legs can dramatically affect the space available within her pelvic cavity.

If you have never tried (or even heard of) this sexual practice, read my tutorial Vaginal Fisting: What It Is and How to Do It.

There are three major positions that seem to work for fisting. Start with the one that you think has the best chance of success, but don't be afraid to try the others.

1) On Her Back: The woman lies on her back, knees bent and feet resting flat, and her partner kneels between her spread legs. (If it's more comfortable, she can try resting them on her partner's shoulders). She may find that stretching out, and tilting her head back creates more room for your hand. With the spine stretched out, all the internal organs move up too, creating more space and less pressure on the vagina.

2) On Her Side: The woman lies on one side at about 85 degrees, and holds one leg up in the air. (Again, resting it on her partner's shoulder for comfort if necessary.) Use pillows under her hip for support and elevation if necessary.

3) On All Fours: The woman supports herself on her hands and knees. Alternately, she can fold her arms under and rest on her shoulders. This may be even better because it tends to tilt the pelvis upward somewhat. Use pillows to support her shoulders, or pile them up so that she can rest her abdomen and hips on them and not have to hold herself up.

Whatever position you do choose, make sure it's comfortable for her to remain in for an extended period of time. It may take several sessions of experimentation to find the positions that work best for you, or you may get it right on the first try. Either way, stay patient and enjoy the excitement.

Once you’ve tried fisting and decided that you like it, here are five advanced techniques you can learn to make vaginal fisting even more intense and satisfying for your woman.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

The 3 Best Positions for MFM Threesomes

Being with two men at once is many women’s biggest fantasy, but, once you’ve found two men, what's the best way to have sex so that everyone ends up happy and satisfied? My recommendations are based on two assumptions: 1) you want to experience double penetration, and 2) one or both of the men are so insecure that even accidentally touching another man's penis would completely ruin their evening. (See MFM threesome rule #1.) The following three positions allow you to be penetrated in two orifices at once while keeping physical contact between the two men at a minimum.

1) Rear-entry/oral. Kneel on all fours with your legs parted slightly. One man enters you from behind, and the other kneels or stands in front of you so that you can perform oral sex on him. Try to keep your back arched slightly, either with your elbows up and locked or by holding on to the man you're giving oral to. That way, by pulling up on your hips and thrusting in a more downward motion, the first man can hit your G-spot . (G-spot stimulation is more likely than anything else to cause a strong, prolonged orgasm.)

2) Vaginal/anal. One man lies down on his back, and you mount him, inserting his penis into your vagina. The second man then comes up behind you and penetrates your anus. This is the position I was in for My First (Surprise) MFM Threesome. For maximum comfort and pleasure, arrange to take the larger penis into your vagina and the smaller one into your anus. Warning: this position may not be suitable for extremely insecure men because they will almost certainly feel each other's movements when they're both inside you.

3) Man-on-top/oral. Lie down on your back with your head hanging head hanging off the edge of the bed. One man gets between your legs and enters you vaginally or anally. Because of the possibility of your sliding backwards off the bed, this is not the time to throw your legs over his shoulders or for him to thrust too vigorously.

The other man stands at your head so that you can perform oral sex on him. Actively thrusting the penis into the mouth of a partner is called irrumatio. If you can deep throat, he will be able to put his penis in as deeply as he wishes in this position, and he can enjoy watching your neck and throat expand and bulge as his penis slides in deep. (If you can’t deep throat and want to learn how, read my tutorial Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It.) If hanging your head off the edge of the bed becomes uncomfortable, you can turn over and continue in position one.

Engaging in an MFM threesome is an experience you’ll never forget. So, if you’re ready, willing and able, go ahead and fulfill one of the biggest fantasies all women dream of – and enjoy it!

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What’s the Best Position for Morning Sex?

For most of us, waking up in the morning doesn't show us in our best light. Our breath may be not its freshest, our hair most likely will be a mess, and most women feel at a disadvantage without our make-up.

Having sex in the morning requires close contact, and many women don't like to be face to face at that time of day. However, a man's testosterone levels are highest in the morning, and if you have some time to spare, morning sex can be a real delight for both of you.

What's the best position for morning sex? The face to-face positions are usually best left for later. This leaves rear entry or side-to-side positions. One position that is a hybrid of both is called the sensual spoon.

Every couple knows how to assume the spoon. Lie on your side with your man behind you. With both of your torsos in this pose, lift your top leg. Then your man should shift his lower body into a half-kneeling position and enter you from behind.

The sensual spoon position gives you the best of two worlds. The half-doggy-style, half-spooning hybrid combines the intimacy of lying side by side with G-spot-rubbing penetration. Since both of his hands are free, he can caress your breasts and stimulate your clitoris. You can reach behind and fondle his testicles and stroke his perineum as he thrusts.

The G-spot is highly stimulated by this angle of entry, and, at the same time, you achieve the depth of rear entry penetration. This position also tends to delay your man's ejaculation, so you can be assured of adequate time for your own orgasm.

The sensual spoon position is an easy, gentle way to have sex when you're just waking up, and you don't have to worry about your morning appearance since you're not face to face. This makes this position one of best choices for morning sex.

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