Thursday, April 30, 2009

The 3 Best Positions for MFM Threesomes

Being with two men at once is many women’s biggest fantasy, but, once you’ve found two men, what's the best way to have sex so that everyone ends up happy and satisfied? My recommendations are based on two assumptions: 1) you want to experience double penetration, and 2) one or both of the men are so insecure that even accidentally touching another man's penis would completely ruin their evening. The following three positions allow you to be penetrated in two orifices at once while keeping physical contact between the two men at a minimum.

1) Rear-entry/oral. Kneel on all fours with your legs parted slightly. One man enters you from behind, and the other kneels or stands in front of you so that you can perform oral sex on him. Try to keep your back arched slightly, either with your elbows up and locked or by holding on to the man you're giving oral to. That way, by pulling up on your hips and thrusting in a more downward motion, the first man can hit your G-spot . (G-spot stimulation is more likely than anything else to cause a strong, prolonged orgasm.)

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2) Vaginal/anal. One man lies down on his back, and you mount him, inserting his penis into your vagina. The second man then comes up behind you and penetrates your anus. This is the position I was in for My First (Surprise) MFM Threesome. For maximum comfort and pleasure, arrange to take the larger penis into your vagina and the smaller one into your anus. Warning: this position may not be suitable for extremely insecure men because they will almost certainly feel each other's movements when they're both inside you.

3) Man-on-top/oral. Lie down on your back with your head hanging head hanging off the edge of the bed. One man gets between your legs and enters you vaginally or anally. Because of the possibility of your sliding backwards off the bed, this is not the time to throw your legs over his shoulders or for him to thrust too vigorously.

The other man stands at your head so that you can perform oral sex on him. Actively thrusting the penis into the mouth of a partner is called irrumatio. If you can deep throat, he will be able to put his penis in as deeply as he wishes in this position, and he can enjoy watching your neck and throat expand and bulge as his penis slides in deep. (If you can’t deep throat and want to learn how, read my tutorial Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It.) If hanging your head off the edge of the bed becomes uncomfortable, you can turn over and continue in position one.

Engaging in an MFM threesome is an experience you’ll never forget. So, if you’re ready, willing and able, go ahead and fulfill one of the biggest fantasies all women dream of – and enjoy it!

20 comments:

Anonymous said...

fe and I have had a friend as a threesome partner for the past 8 years. I enjoy watching him fill her. He and I are both straight, but I have no problem if we feel each other. I like to lick her clit as he slides in and out of her and i use my tongue to feel it slide in her.We take turns in her and both cum in her. Its great fun.

Svetlana Ivanova said...

I'll bet it's great fun - for both you and her! It's good that you and your friend can touch each other incidentally without it being awkward. Some men won't even do anal-vaginal double penetration because they can feel the other man's penis, let alone lick the woman's clitoris while she's being screwed by the other man.

Anonymous said...

Double penetration whether vaginal or vaginal/anal has always been my favorite experience. I usually enjoy this activity with a married couple, and most enjoy it when it is their first time. I also love preceding this activity by orally stimulating the lady's clitoris while her man enters her vaginally from the rear either with her on her back on top of him, or with her on her knees while her hubby takes her from the rear and with me in a 69 position beneath them. There really is nothing to compare to the pleasure two men caring men can afford a woman.

Svetlana Ivanova said...

OMG, I LOVE cunnilingus while being screwed! The combination of a soft, wet tongue licking my clitoris and a big, hard penis sliding in and out of me is "sexsational."

Double penetration is really intense and usually leaves me both exhausted but energized afterward, if that makes any sense.

Anonymous said...

I had one experience recently with some very close married friends of mine. It was awkward at first but became pleasurable once the jitters wore off and lust took over. My favorite part of it was me underneath her in a 69, her on her knee's, and her husband fucking her from behind. I don't consider myself gay but the sensation of his cock sliding across my tongue and into her pussy as I ate her was indescribable. His was the first cum, beside my own, that I had ever tatsed.

Svetlana Ivanova said...

I've never been in that position, but I'll bet it's exciting.

Anonymous said...

For the past couple of days it feels like I'm thinking about nothing else but a threesome - bug probably not for the expected reasons. I would seriously appreciate some advice here.

I've just recently started a new relationship after being single for about 3 years. I'm 25. He's 34. I'm outgoing, social and fairly confident in day to day life, however when it comes to sex and relationships I tend to be quite private and a bit shy.

No the man I'm seeing is my opposite, he is even more loud and outgoing than me and he is also alot mire sexually experienced, and are really in to three sums.
Now he doesn't want FMF - he wants MFM!!

He wants to watch me with another man and he also wants
to join in and I guess it's about pleasing me and himself to.
I on the other hand

(and I know there will be woman out there who will be wahhh, but that's why I'm writing here, please help me)

cringe at the thought of any of this!! The thoughts and images going through my mind are only horrid ones recalling a either painful, akward, cold, disconnected or downgrading... But I think its ment to be for a woman to
feel aroused at this thought?? So could anyone please tell me:

What could happen to a couple doing this - does that depend on what type of people you are?
What is it like? And what are you expected to do?
Is this something you should rather do when you
are single? Any general advice??

Svetlana Ivanova said...

The most important thing about an MFM threesome IMO is that you pick or approve the other man. You should choose a man that you like (most important) and/or are somewhat attracted to. Your man can suggest someone if you don't have anyone in mind, but don't have a threesome with someone whose only good quality is that he has a penis!

As for what to do, the beauty of the MFM threesome, is that you get done to. Let the men take the lead. Be as aggressive or passive as you feel like being. If you like and are attracted to both men, an MFM threesome can be a HUGE turn-on!

Finally, if you just plain don't want to try an MFM threesome, don't. If you go along with it against your will, it will definitely affect your relationship for the worse. However, if you look at it as an opportunity to "double your pleasure," it can be a memorable experience and not affect your relationship at all.

Anonymous said...

Hi Svetlana! And thank you for your reply.
I would like to ask you a few questions:

1. Do you recommend that you choose a man
that you don't know and will not have any further
relation to? The idea of being with any of
his friends make me cringe...

2. Would you recommend someone (like me
for example) that find it difficult to:
a) separate sex and pleasure from love and
b) that are a bit shy and private
to have a threesome?

3. In the aspect of "sharing" your partner - do
you believe that a man can truly love their girl
if they want to share her? What do you think are
the main motives for a man wanting a MFM threesome?

4. Would you recommend that this is something
that you do early on in a relationship or more after
you are "secure and grounded"?

5. Your MFM experiences - have they mostly been with
sexual partners you didn't have any emotional
bonds to or have they been mostly with boyfriends? What's the difference/positives/negatives?

6. Would you say that you at any time have felt used, hurt or felt that MFM had been a downgrading experience?

7. How could anyone learn to explore more and perhaps be willing to try new things? By going slowly and feeling their way ahead? I like a comment of yours: "woman like to be lead, just not forced" that is so true

8. Do you think it is possible for a man to love their woman more after you share a experience like this together?
If I'm honest I am scared to be viewed as a slut or whore
I know I'm not and I'm not saying that people who do this are, it's just a emotional reaction

9. When thinking about MFM I think I will feel out of control and that things will happen that I don't like but can't stop, or won't stop because I will feel that it's too late, is doing this all about trust and could you give me some tips for how to
discuss this matter with my partner?

10. Do you or did you ever set up rules for what was allowed and not allowed when having MFM or do you think
that you should just go with the flow?

Anonymous said...

We have enjoyed many mfm threesomes and look forward to the experience again and soon. Favorite position would be any in which she can take me orally at the same time our partner fills her vagina. She loves the nautiness of feeling two hard men in her either in turn or better yet in tandem.

Svetlana Ivanova said...

Having two men in turn is good, but having two men inside you at the same time is what takes things to another level.

Anonymous said...

i have always had these fantasies being pleasured by another man who has a very large penis. its a big turn on for me. i would actually like to turn my fantasy into a reality.

Anonymous said...

My wife and I are going to have our first mfm tonight we're all very excited. I've been trying to get her to do this for 3 years or so. Now that we actually had a conversation about it, instead of just talking about it during sex, I think she's more excited about it than me. She wants my friend in her ass while she fucks me. She also wants double anal and double pussy, and when we're all comfortable with everything, she wants us both to pee inside her while were both deep in her cunt. She turns me on so much. (Tip for women) guys like it when girls are really nasty in bed. I hope to eventually have multiple people join us so we can experience one of our biggest dreams of completely filling her up with cum. She wants to let it all drain out all over my cock so she can lick it off..... Yeah by the way I just got her to agree to do dp yesterday. Before that she always told me "talking about it is one thing but I would never do it." And now she's telling me all this kinky stuff and I love it... I think she wanted it all along. I'm 26 to she's 23 we've been married for 3 years together for 7 and now our sex life is better than it has been in like 5 years. Wow I love this.

Svetlana Ivanova said...

I hope it's your first MFM threesome is everything you're hoping for. Let me know how it turns out.

Anonymous said...

My husband and I have been together for 5 and a half years. We have always been crazy in love and had a good sex life and good relationship. About 3 years ago he brought up the idea of swinging, having 3 sums and orgies and everything. I was so scared when he first brought it up I told him everyone fantasizes about these things but you can't act on it, it's like cheating with permission and forcing me to watch, all these crazy things went through my head that simply aren't true.
I am very shy and I am submissive in the bed so it was scary the thought of adding more people into the mix. I was also uncomfortable imaging him with someone else and I did not want to be with someone else.
We continued to talk about it and we'd talk out scenarios during sex and it started turning me on and exciting me. He explained to me it was about us not everyone else we make love together and to no one else, but can bring others in for more enjoyable sex that is juat for pleasure and that doesn't mean our sex life is bad it just means there more out there we missing out on.
About 2 years ago we tried it. We went to a swingers club and met others we were attracted to and started off slow. Touching fingerings hand job oral and eventually got to sex. I actually enjoy seeing another woman on him or him on her and seeing how much she enjoys it. It's like yes he's mine and I'm lucky. He feels the same way watching men get off on me. We can show each other off and try new wild things.
Every person we have met 'in the lifestyle' has been so friendly. We have occasionally met a guy who is rude and doesn't know how to act, but we ask him to leave us alone and everything is fine. We have had some lack luster experiences but we have had many amazing ones in our 2 years swinging.
THE BEST PART: It brought us when closer together! I didn't think it was possible because our relationship was so good. But if you can talk about wanting to fuck someone else or about how someone else made you feel, you can talk about anything! We learn new tricks, someone was giving him a really great bj and I ask wow what was her trick and now I can give great bJ's like her.
We love each other so much and I feel so lucky to have him and to have found someone that I can do this with. I hear coworkers (who don't have a clue we do this) talk about huge fights they get in over jealousy, stupid things like saying the waitress is hot and now it erupted into some big old drama. I just feel bad for these people. We can checkout anyone and think millions of others are attractive but that does not mean we are any less in love or any less attracted to each other.
Anyways, sorry this was so long but my last words of advice. Talk to your partner. You have to be able to talk about every detail of these things and lay out rules. We have a few rules; we never separate ever, no kissing, and he is the only one who gets near the anal territory. We have our own reasons for our rules and they work. Occasionally we allow kissing, but we have found that makes people act more intimately and we don't like that. So lay out whatever rules you choose for yourself and they can change as you learn more. Also talk to the people you play with tell them your rules and learn theirs. Dont be afraid to stop in the middle and talk to your partner. Its better to feel awkward stopping to talk than do something one of you is not okay with.
Always play safe!! Condoms are a must, the pill or a vasectomy do not protect against Stds. I know, no brainer but we have met people and asked them to put a condom on and they say oh no I had the surgery and our response is always so? Its not pregnancy were worried about we are on something, its disease. Don't be naive.
Lastly, don't do anything you personally are not ready for, don't do something your partner wants if you are uncomfortable. You'll regret it and resent them.
I hope you have as good of an experience as us!

Svetlana Ivanova said...

Thanks, This could be very helpful for anyone thinking about having a threesome.

Anonymous said...

hi, i had a threesum with my partner and his mate from work on the eve of new year. its was amazing!!! best experiance i have ever had, they did too love it and we want more x

Anonymous said...

Hi Svetlana I want to have a threesome sex with my wife and I already inform my wife about this.she is not interest in threesome sex in real life. but she like go hear my threesome fantasy when she is masturbating. I like to have MFM threesome with her and I see she enjoying my fantasy stories about MFM threesome sex. is it means she wants threesome sex really ?

Svetlana Ivanova said...

Maybe. Not all fantasies are meant to be acted out, but if she's enjoying your stories she may want to try a threesome someday. The key is to get her to reveal why she says she isn't interested and overcoming that objection.

Anonymous said...

Knees. No apostrophe.